I love all 5 of my children so, so, so much,
and four of them are now 8 months-- wow!!!
|8 month beauties: Lauren, Tyler, Tanner & Hannah|
A few weeks ago I started a "Baby of the Day". What I intended this to be was, when possible, to focus on one specific child versus all of them. For example, when practicing rolling over, I line them up on the mats and sing the roll-over song ("There were 10 in the bed and the little one said 'Roll Over!'"); I roll everyone over 10 times, each way, but doing this with all of them sometimes I rush through it and don't have time to really observe their motor patterns or see how well they are gaining individual skills. I know this is therapist talk, but just know I am too busy in my 4-pack mode to notice much: I just try to get er' done. The last few weeks, I have had the chance to focus entire days on Lauren (Monday), Tyler (Tuesday), Hannah (Wednesday) and Tanner (Thursday). I don't neglect the others of course, but I allow myself the opportunity to focus my eyes, ears, and full attention on my very individualized babies! What I didn't intend on happening was that this intentional focus has actually merged into most every moment with them. I feel that I am much more intentional at seeing them for who they are versus as "all my children". Andy & I have 5 very different little individuals God entrusted us to!
What about Jenna? Glad you asked! Every day is Jenna day! I certainly don't have the focus on her all the time (You have no idea how many times I say,"Mommy has lots of chores to do today, sweetie"). But we definitely have quality time every day. I learned a secret a few years ago with Jenna: "quality time" means locking eyes with her and really listening to what she had to say. That is her love language. I found I was getting in a bad habit of being distracted and would look at her, but not really look at her. Believe me, kid's notice. So I have also been much more intentional about locking eyes with those other 8.
Here is what I am seeing:
The Lauren-ness of Lauren:
|"Mommy, I love getting all clean!"|
|Sitting up! (with a little help from my feet)|
|"Seriously, Hannah? Your elbow does not belong on my eye!"|
Lauren loves blowing raspberries these days. She has such a deep chortle when I breathe or kiss into her chubby neck. She has beautiful sleepy eyes that widen & brighten when we lock eyes. We say so much to each other by just using our eyes! She just started rolling over from her back to her tummy yesterday-- way to go, big girl! She can almost sit on her own. When hungry, she scrunches her nose and breathes in & out real fast in just the most adorable way as if to say, "Mom, I'm wasting away here!". She is a great eater and loves sticking her fingers in her mouth and smearing food all over her face as she sucks it off her fingers. It is so cute I don't mind the mess! She is starting to talk in a sweet, raspy voice. I worry that being intubated for so long when so little has something to do with it, but daddy thinks I am being a worrywart. Lauren is in one word: sweet. She is my joy and just a glorious gift from God.
The Tyler-ness of Tyler:
|"How you doin'?"|
|Sitting up! (with help from mom's legs)|
|"Hannah, don't spit on me, ok?"|
|Oh, he is just such a sweet little peanut! He gives me the most adoring looks that melt my heart every time!|
Tyler has joined Hannah in rolling all over the living room floor. He is really proud of his new skill and loves to show us how he can go from back to tummy to back & on and on! Tyler laughs. All the time! It is the most infectious, adorable laugh and all I need to do is simply lock eyes with him and smile. He is just so happy! Tyler is still so small but he continues to amaze us with his strength and skills. He likes to stand up and he literally catches air when he does the jumparoo. He now loves to eat but his favorite part is in the end when I cheer for all of them... he smiles like he just won a million bucks! He is learning to sit and loves to sing/chirp right now. Tyler is a snuggler and gives me goo goo eyes all the time (daddy says he's a momma's boy right now, which I absolutely 100% adore and cherish!). He is my joy and just a glorious gift from God.
The Hannah-ness of Hannah:
|Look at Hannah, almost sitting up on her own!|
|"Hey sissy, I have s secret to tell you!"|
|Happy Hannah halfway under the couch-- and loving it!|
The Tanner-ness of Tanner:
|Look at my little man sitting up! (with the help of my feet)|
|Looking at me with one of his Adorable Looks. Oh, those eyelashes!!!|
|Tanner LOVES bath time!|
|Look at this big boy standing tall!|
The Jenna-ness of Jenna:
|Best. Big. Sister. Ever!|
|Helping wash Tanner (after taking a shower herself, silly wet girl!)|
|Sharing giggles with Hannah|
|Just look at that precise cutting!|
Who can you lock eyes with today to enjoy some more personalized "individual" time with? Hmm, something to think about. Happy Spring, Everyone!